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COME AS YOU ARE

YOUR LIFE TOOK A TURN.
YOU CAN TAKE COMPANY.

Made for adults building a local circle after a change of plan. No perfect introduction. No requirement to explain what happened.

A DIFFERENT CHAPTER / 01

THE JOB CHANGED.

You moved for an opportunity. The role changed, the team went remote, or the job ended. Your calendar needs people who aren’t tied to a work login.

A DIFFERENT CHAPTER / 02

THE RELATIONSHIP DID.

You built a life around someone and now want a circle that feels like your own. You can bring a café idea without bringing an explanation.

A DIFFERENT CHAPTER / 03

THE CARING CHAPTER SHIFTED.

Family responsibilities changed, and there is suddenly unfamiliar space in your week. A short, ordinary outing can be a gentler place to start.

A DIFFERENT CHAPTER / 04

EVERYONE ELSE MOVED ON.

You stayed in the city while friends moved away or routines changed. You know the streets. You would like some new people to share them with.

YOU DON’T HAVE
TO BE A
“PEOPLE PERSON.”

Curious, considerate and willing to show up is a good start.

October404 is for adults 18+. It is especially shaped around the practical realities of your late twenties to mid-forties, though that isn’t a strict age band.

It’s a friendship format. It isn’t a clinical support service, a singles event, or a place to pitch a business. You can arrive with a small plan and keep the rest private.

What a thoughtful meeting looks like
YOUR NEXT CHAPTER STARTS SMALL

THE NEXT GOOD THING
MIGHT BE A PERSON.

One city. Two new faces. A plan worth leaving the house for.

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